Okay girls,
Who likes Carrie Underwood, as a singer?
Well I was fortunate enough to see her in Concert a week or so ago.
(BTW if you ever go to the Bridgeport Arena, there is an excellent restaurant called Roberto's just a couple blocks away, which is FAB!)
Okay, anyway, I had been listening to her while I run on the treadmill and realized that I fell in love with this one song, so I really listened to the lyrics and found that she was basically saying.....she gives any guy a chance, but the more "frogs she kisses, the more she loves her dog!"
Well, I just plain have to laugh at that.
Can't we all just relate. Finding the perfect man for you , is not always easy.
Then add having been married, having children , getting divorced and now dating in your mid 30S.
My Lord, I thought dating in the 20's was tough, now I add, your children, his children, both the x spouses,work, after school activities, maintaining houses, families,friends ..............ugh. How confusing it all gets. At the end of day..........not sure if it is worth it, or where does one find the time.
I have actually realized that having been married, having had my children, having shared a life with someone who limited me and my opportunities, I am going to embrace the next few years of my life to enjoy being independent, raising my children and developing a career for myself. If I kiss that frog and he is the prince, well then........he will be my partner in life to walk side by side, not in front of or behind me!
What I have learned in the past several years........... never settle, life is too short!
Be Strong and enjoy life, everything good comes in time.
Jules