Okay, is it not the best when you know your girls have got your back. I mean really, you walk into a restaurant and there is your boyfriend with a 22 year old? (btw he is 45) yup , nothing like that mid life crisis! Anyway, then he proceeds to walk up to you, introduce the two of you and buy you both a drink. Now ....you're thinking....are you for REAL? This isn't awkward at all! Meanwhile, he is like....i just met her, it's nothing....???? Yah...and with that...you are no longer my boyfriend, as the nothing takes off with you on the back of your Harley! MMMMM ....what they do not realize, however, is that when you do something like this to a good person...karma follows them. You see we all have "posse's" of girl friends. That man is now ousted from this group and if any of them run into him....watch out...he will get an earful! Never underestimate the power of group of girls!
As for relationships.....not sure if they are all cracked up to be what we think they are....but it is a process of going through many frogs til one is actually a prince.
Girls...a great time last night. Kris, you are the best and I know you are always there for me! Eileen, my god, the laughs, the lip gloss & ATM cards....where would we be with out our friendship. Liz, congrats on the condo...you are awesome! Doug....you can dance like no other!
Hope you all have a great day.
Jules
Friday, May 9, 2008
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
How To Get Your Support With Out it Costing You Money
Okay
We all dread the days of going to the 3rd floor of the new haven superior court.
What is even worse is the 350.00 and hour bill from the attorney there after.
And all to collect what was supposed to be sent to us per court order anyway
the day we got divorced.
Well, I have found a great resource, Support Services.
If you are not getting paid the support each week, this service is
free to all CT residents and they track monies paid and not paid
They will hold your ex spouse in contempt after a certain time frame
they will go after anything support wise, daycare, medical, support, alimony
etec. and the service is free to us.
It is basically their program to collect from the "deadbeats" of the world.
Phone number to contact them: 203.974.8258.
The process requires you to get a most current copy of your divorce decree
from the clerk's office.
Then calculating what is owed and signing off that it is true
Setting up an appointment with the above number to open your case.
After a time frame if no monies are collected, your case is handed to
support "enforcement."
This department is the one that can hold in contempt,
pull delinquent payor into court and in the end actually
hand off the arrest warrant for the deadbeat if they have not
paid .
I wanted to pass this on to all out there , as I realize how
expensive attorney fee's can get. And sometimes we just don't have the money.
The stated will track monies paid, they will direct deposit into your account, they will
hold contempt charges, they can intercept Tax Return checks, they are a powerful
resource.
If you want any further info, call the number or email me at jules@dipnight.com
Have a great Day!
We all dread the days of going to the 3rd floor of the new haven superior court.
What is even worse is the 350.00 and hour bill from the attorney there after.
And all to collect what was supposed to be sent to us per court order anyway
the day we got divorced.
Well, I have found a great resource, Support Services.
If you are not getting paid the support each week, this service is
free to all CT residents and they track monies paid and not paid
They will hold your ex spouse in contempt after a certain time frame
they will go after anything support wise, daycare, medical, support, alimony
etec. and the service is free to us.
It is basically their program to collect from the "deadbeats" of the world.
Phone number to contact them: 203.974.8258.
The process requires you to get a most current copy of your divorce decree
from the clerk's office.
Then calculating what is owed and signing off that it is true
Setting up an appointment with the above number to open your case.
After a time frame if no monies are collected, your case is handed to
support "enforcement."
This department is the one that can hold in contempt,
pull delinquent payor into court and in the end actually
hand off the arrest warrant for the deadbeat if they have not
paid .
I wanted to pass this on to all out there , as I realize how
expensive attorney fee's can get. And sometimes we just don't have the money.
The stated will track monies paid, they will direct deposit into your account, they will
hold contempt charges, they can intercept Tax Return checks, they are a powerful
resource.
If you want any further info, call the number or email me at jules@dipnight.com
Have a great Day!
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